Stories of finding ways to live well with chronic conditions.
You don’t have to get worse.
Join George as he speaks with people who have changed their relationship with pain and found joy, purpose and possibility again.
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"The model we're working in is the 'chest infection model'. You take the meds and you get better. But with persistent pain it never works like that. Real recovery starts when we change the approach."
In the first episode of The Conditions for Recovery Podcast, George speaks with Katy, who shares her experiences and insights in to her journey through chronic pain.
Moving away from the frustration of seeking a "linear fix," they discuss the mindset and systemic shifts that are required to truly navigate life with a long-term condition.
In this episode, we explore:
The "Fixed" Myth: Why the medical expectation of a 100% cure can be a barrier to your progress.
Empathy Fatigue: Dealing with the social pressure of "not being over it yet."
Clinical Honesty: Why it’s vital for healthcare professionals to admit that ambiguity is present.
Agency & Bravery: How recognizing your own power and processing grief are the ultimate acts of bravery.
The Future of Care: Why we should be teaching the biopsychosocial model in schools.
Whether you are living with pain or a clinician looking for a deeper understanding of the patient experience, this conversation offers a authentic, hopeful perspective on what it means to recover.
Connect with Katy:LinkedIn Katy Frost
Website: https://www.bobsyourauntydesign.com
Instagram: swallowandoakwellbeing
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"I was a senior leader in a construction company by day, but my wife got the leftovers of me at night."
Keith Meldrum spent 40 years navigating persistent pain, trapped in a cycle of ineffective medical interventions and trying to maintain a "mask of normalcy."
In this episode, we break down why the traditional model of fixing pain often fails and how Keith changed his approach to reclaim a life that is bigger than his diagnosis.
In this Episode:
The Mask of Normalcy: The hidden exhaustion of appearing fine at work while leaving only the leftovers for the people you love.
The Approach That Changes Everything: Why validation is more than a courtesy. It’s the first condition for recovery.
The Dilution Analogy: Stop trying to shrink the pain. Start increasing the meaning in your life.
Grieving Your Old Life: Why you must mourn the person you used to be to become the person you are now. Body
Fragility vs. Movement: Re-training your nervous system to feel safe after decades of fear. Training over Fixing: How to take control of your own recovery with supported self management.
Connect with Keith:
LinkedIn: Keith Meldrum
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Why do healthcare professionals keep telling chronic pain patients "it's all in your head"? If you are living with fibromyalgia, endometriosis or another invisible illness, you probably relate to the medical system feeling isolating.
In this episode, author and advocate Shabnam Rakhiba shares how she survived a decade of medical gaslighting and found a path to recovery.
If you have ever felt dismissed by healthcare professionals or trapped by box ticking exercises, this conversation exposes the failures of modern pain management and why pain recovery is actually about social justice.
What We Discuss in This Episode:
Your Body Is Not the Enemy: How to break away from the toxic conflict narrative of chronic illness.
The "Mindset" Myth: Why telling chronic pain patients to learn resilience is a privileged lie.
Medical Misogyny Explored: The exhausting barriers women face when trying to get an invisible illness diagnosed.
The Rigged Job Market: The brutal reality of looking for flexible employment and workplace accommodations with a long-term health condition.
Stop Fixing Symptoms: Why true recovery means healing your environment and your life, not just tracking your pain.
Get 25% Off Shabnam's Book 'Learning Through Pain': Website: https://www.chronicwellnesslounge.com/product-details/product/learningthroughpain Coupon Code: CONDITIONSFORRECOVERY
Connect with Shabnam:
Initiatives:
The Chronic Wellness Lounge
Unapologetic Women Collective
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shabnam-rakhiba-coaching/
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"As a healthcare provider, the best instrument you have is your ears. If you really listen to your patients and take on board what they're saying, they give you the clues. You are the detective. You have the medical background to put the pieces of the jigsaw puzzle together which is the only way I eventually got my diagnosis. We had to fit every piece together to make the full picture of what was going on."
In the second episode of The Conditions for Recovery Podcast, George speaks with Tracy Jallow, an expert patient who lived undiagnosed with Antiphospholipid Syndrome (APS) for nearly two decades.
Moving away from the passive patient model, they discuss the limitations of a healthcare system that isn’t always built for complexity and the transformative power of reclaiming your agency.
In this episode, we explore:
Meaningful Clinical Relationships: Why holistic collaboration, validation and genuine listening are the only ways to solve complex puzzles.
Finding Purpose: How to navigate a life with chronic illness by moving from grief to self advocate.
Self-Advocacy: The responsibility we have to ourselves to find our own personal way forward within the system.
Living Well Alongside Symptoms: Finding the specific tools and mindset shifts needed to enrich life.
Community & Participation: The vital role of finding your people, rediscovering joy and staying connected to your values.
Whether you are living with pain or a clinician looking for a deeper understanding of the patient experience, this conversation offers a huge amount of insight and a hopeful perspective on what it means to recover.
Connect with Tracy:
LinkedIn: Tracy Jallow
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"A zombie went into hospital and a hyperactive teenager came out."
For years Louise Welch's life was dominated by the pain of Fibromyalgia and Osteoarthritis. Taking 15 different medications including dangerously high doses of strong opioids, reaching 25 stone and confined to an armchair by pain so severe she couldn't even stand light touch. Now she has transformed her life to become one of the leading voices in lived experience.
In this conversation George and Louise explore her journey with persistent pain, the dangers of long term opioid use and the barriers that keep people stuck.
In this Episode:
The Challenge of Medication Only Approaches: Louise’s debilitating journey through opioid induced hyperalgesia (where the medication makes pain worse) and the radical approach that changed everything.
The Benefits System is failing people: How disability assessments punish people who try to do the things which will help them recover.
The Power of a Name: Why a diagnosis like Fibromyalgia can be essential for validation and the damage caused by poor medical communication.
The Conditions for Recovery: Factors like financial stability, a supportive employer and clinician empathy are just as important as any intervention or strategy.
Hope Without Knowing Everything: The diagnosis might remain but your experience of life can drastically improve.
Louise’s story is a wake up call for a healthcare system that often prioritises protocols over the people that are suffering that they are meant to serve. Whether you are living with pain or a clinician looking for a deeper understanding of the patient experience, this conversation offers an authentic, hopeful perspective on what it means to recover.
Connect with Louise:
LinkedIn: Louise Welch
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/louise_welch67/
Other resources:
Opioids Aware https://www.fpm.ac.uk/opioids-aware
ReConnect2Life: https://www.torbayandsouthdevon.nhs.uk/services/pain-service/reconnect2life/
Flippin Pain: https://www.flippinpain.co.uk/
Live Well with Pain: https://livewellwithpain.co.uk/
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The impact of doing the simple things well, taking a wider view of your condition and moving beyond an ineffective medical model of pain care.
In the third episode of The Conditions for Recovery Podcast, George speaks with Darrell Price, an expert patient who has transformed his experience of persistent back pain into a mission to support others.
Moving away from the fix it mentality of his engineering background and the traditional clinical route, they discuss the vital role of peer support, the power of the "micro-win" and why true recovery requires a whole life approach.
In this episode, we explore:
The Power of Being Heard: Why standard 10 minute appointments often fail to capture the complexity of persistent pain.
Beyond Just Pills: How Darrell realized that stronger medication wasn't the answer and turned toward lifestyle changes.
The Power of Real Understanding: Why peer support offers a level of validation and solidarity that you simply cannot find elsewhere.
Sleep Readiness: Why your sleep routine doesn't start just before bed but from the moment you wake up.
Zooming Out on Flares: Learning to look at the wider picture rather than hunting for a single physical cause.
The Myth of Inevitable Decline: Why it is essential to challenge narratives of hopelessness and find a way to live well alongside long term symptoms.
Whether you are living with pain or a clinician looking for a deeper understanding of the patient journey, this conversation offers a practical and optimistic perspective grounded in lived experience on reclaiming quality of life.
Connect with Darrell: LinkedIn: Darrell Price
Facebook: Pain Inspired Community
Email: hello@paininspired.co.uk
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"That's what life's all about. We enjoy life and not endure it."
In this episode, globally renowned pain self management advocate Pete Moore discusses his long journey with persistent pain and the techniques he has learned to live well without medication or experiencing “bonkers” pain for nearly 30 years.
After reclaiming his own life Pete turned his pain into purpose by creating the Pain Toolkit a resource that has transformed self management education for both patients and healthcare professionals worldwide. He is now turning his focus to long term conditions.
In this conversation, George and Pete explore his early experiences with persistent pain, the psychological trap of the medical model, realising no one else was going to fix him and the daily habits that keep him in the drivers seat now.
In This Episode:
Escaping the Prison of the Medical Model: Realising that passive treatments aren't enough, why you must break free and find what works for you.
Meaningful Movement vs. Generic Exercise: Why trading a boring sheet of exercises for activities that bring genuine joy, connection and purpose is more impactful.
The Iceberg of Pain: We only see the top third above the water. The hidden factors driving and maintaining chronic conditions are below the surface and why addressing these leads to the greatest improvements.
Redefining Pacing: Why pacing isn't just about energy conservation or doing less but about finding your tolerable baseline to start to build your capacity and confidence back up.
The Missing Ingredient: The vital role that fun and enjoyment play in pain management, and how it's criminally left out of traditional rehab.
Pete’s story is an inspiring reminder that when you stop asking "who is coming to fix me?" and start looking at what you can do for yourself, genuine recovery begins.
Whether you are living with a long term condition or you're a clinician looking for a deeper understanding of the patient experience, this conversation offers an authentic, hopeful perspective on what it means to live well.
Connect with Pete:
The Pain Toolkit: https://selfmgttoolkit.org/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/pete-moore-b5486613/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/pain-&-self-care-toolkits/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/paintoolkit/
Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/paintoolkit.bsky.social
Threads: https://www.threads.com/@paintoolkit?igshid=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ== -